Introduction: Hello my Friend!

This is the first time I have the honor of writing an e-book. So I’ll do my best to make it as exciting for you as it is for me.
Normally you have to listen to the boring facts; unfortunately you will not avoid them this time either.
But it’s probably very nice for you to know, who writes what you’re going to read.

 

So who am I?

My name is Kim Falidan, I’m 23 years old, and I’m living in Copenhagen in Denmark. If you ask me, I study on one of the world’s most ‘tasteful’ educations, which is the chief cook education. On a hobby basis, I commit myself to the psychotherapeutic world, beside my education, which you probably don’t think is a complete coincidence, since I Jealousywrite an e-book about jealousy.
But it wasn’t only the strong passion for my hobby which has inspired me. Just to confuse you further, it is actually the book that inspired me to dig deeper into my hobby.
Where did the book come from? It came from a hell … No, I don’t exaggerate, but I wish I did.

My eternal and hopeless struggle against jealousy lasted over a period of almost 6 years. It took me 6 years before I got rid of this unhealthy jealousy.
I mentioned something about hell, but it couldn’t have been so bad, could it Kim? Well, it was. Jealousy is an emotion that everyone has, some got less and some got more. I was at the high state of jealousy.
It’s not because my jealousy has led to physical or mental violence or something extreme in that sense, but it has devastated my emotions unbelievably much.
Jealousy has cost me several relationships, and even more moments in my life, that should have been happy for me.
Since you’re here now, you probably already know what I’m talking about.
I went down with stress and depression a few times, because of my eternal struggle and frustration about my jealousy, the jealousy took the persons I loved away from me constantly. Not that everyone broke up with me; I actually broke up with them, because the jealousy was killing the love I had for them. Today I feel sorry for them. But those I didn’t break up with, I simply scared.Today I really understand why they reacted like they did.

Luckily I don’t have any more broken doors or furniture in my apartment, which was the result of a jealousy bomb which was exploding now and then in the past. No, today I’m happy and living with the woman of my life. I have been in love for almost a year now, but that’s another story, it’s quite an amazing love story if you ask me. No matter how jealous you are, you have the strength to defeat it if you get to know yourself better. And you will, right? If your answer is yes – then good, because it’s actually quite easy, you just have to “wake-up” first.
There are no excuses, my book is completely free, and it takes no longer time reading it, compared to the difference it can make for your life now and in the future.

So go ahead, you’re the only one who can make a difference.

I’m really glad you’re here, and I’m sure you’ll be the same after have read it.
For the women who read my book, it’s important for me to point out that you can easily read it and get the full benefits. Jealousy is a feeling both sexes have in common in equal measures.

And for those with a jealous partner , the above also applies to you. Maybe not because you are jealous yourself, but because you really do have the power to help your partner to become free of jealousy. Believe me; you will thank yourself for it later, and your partner will specially thank you for doing so.

Let me be a little metaphorical now. The blood, sweat and tears I’ve felt to get the experience I describe in the book, we can consider from a helicopter perspective.
The helicopter is in front of you now, free and ready to fly you over the jealousy horizon. My book is the helicopter.Jealousy
You can even determine the color of the helicopter, but I decide where we fly. As I said earlier, it’s the jealousy horizon; we will fly over together in the forthcoming moment.
Believe me; you will be amazed about the impact of something as simple as having an overview.
Choose the color of your helicopter, and when you feel ready and comfortable, go read on.

Let’s get started!

 

Chapter 1: What is Jealousy?